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A Few Wedding Pics

The big day has come and gone. Of course we will be paying for it for awhile. LOL Everything was PERFECT! Thanks to the many people who did so much. Andrea, our daughter-in-law did all the decorating with the help of her folks, Steve and Cheryl Frederick and her sister Audra. They came all the way from Texas to help out. WOW Fred and Rene Brewster took care of the food at the reception and it was sumptuous. Christina Atkinson made all the girls and bride’s bouquets. She did an incredible job. Everyone helped move chairs and furniture etc. Tena Valenti organized the whole thing as our wedding coordinator. I don’t think we could have done it without her. A HUGE thank you to you all.

The spirit of the Lord kissed this wedding too. His presence was so sweet when Grandpa Hurst prayed for the couple. We laughed, especially when Danelle did her little things. You just had to be there. We cried when she walked in on the arm of her Dad and a little through out the ceremony too. And then we cried again when Danelle and Matthew began to go to each one in their wedding party and hug them and thank them for making their day special, as the song “That’s What Friends Are For” was being played. It was a very special moment.

Danelle was so appreciative too, of all the people that showed up. Family, new and old friends alike. She said her life long dream had come true. Thank you to all who came and made her’s and Matthews day so special.

Here are a few snap shots from different people. I will have better pics later.

 

The Radiant Bride

 

Eskimo Kissing?

 

Danelle and Dad

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Us with the Bride and Groom

I will have more pictures later as I get them.

 

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PARENTING PRESSURES

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

 

Here are some basic dos and don’ts for you who are worn out by children’s angry outbursts.  No one has a magic answer to this problem, but here are some ideas that are known to help.

 

Please DON’T

*feel guilty and condemn yourself

*make the oldest child responsible for keeping his anger in check all the time

*lash back at the child who is exploding

*condemn your child for feeling angry

*expect your child to put a smile on his face when he is angry

*pretend nothing is wrong when your child is angry

*jump right in and punish a child for being angry without knowing the whole story

*reward tantrums by giving in

*set your child up for an explosion by provoking them

 

Please DO

 

*listen to your children when they are angry

*give your children permission to feel angry without guilt

*set limits on how long your children can vent their anger

*tell your children that they have a right to feel angry but do NOT have the right to harm anyone or anything when they are angry

*arrange for an angry child to spend some time alone to cool down and think about what caused the outburst

*spend time with a child who has lashed out after he has cooled down

*teach children several options they can use to diffuse their anger

*teach children how to forgive (this is so important)

*pray with your children about their feelings in a positive, understanding way

*hold your children close after they have cooled down. Many youngsters are terrified by their own anger.

 

Hang In There! Time has a way of dulling swords. Life gets more pleasant as they get older—–even if older means after twenty-five.

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New Web-Site

Our trial period is over so now our church has bought into the web-world. Our new web address is www.thepentecostalchurchonline.org. Put us on your favorites list and come visit often.

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First Service

My husband greeting the congregation.

We had a wonderful time in our new sanctuary for out first service. God’s presence met us in a very special way. Excited, Powerful, Sweet are just a few words to express all we felt that night. Thank God for the things He is doing.

 

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Empty Nest II

 

 

Well, Danelle’s room is empty as of today.  There are a few clothes and shoes left that she will need this week and her things for the honeymoon. But other than that the room is bare.  She will be sleeping on an air bed this last week at home. I hope Matthew enjoys that good mattress. LOL

You know a few days ago when I wrote about the “empty nest” I said I had shed a few tears.  Well, today I just flat out broke down and went to “squallin’.”  For those of you that don’t know what that word means, it’s crying real hard.  Don’t judge me for my tears until you’ve been where I am.  I know, I didn’t think I would either but…..boo hoo. I did. And now I feel better.  Isn’t it funny how crying makes us girls feel better?

I  don’t know how much blogging I’ll get to do this next week because I will be extremely busy with final touches for the wedding.  Family and friends start coming in on Tuesday so I know for sure there will be no time after that. Maybe I should just kick back and let them all work. Yeah, right! I could see me doing that.

I  look forward to this week and all the excitement of Matt and Danelle, family and friends to share it with. And I’ll be back in a few days with a lot of pictures I’m sure.

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Alone In My Thoughts

Seasons Of A Lifetime

 

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

 

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

 

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.

 

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. It is real! But, only for a season.

 

LIFETIME relationships teach you lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person anyway; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

 

I have lived long enough to have had everyone of these kinds of relationships. Some have come into my life at certain times for a specific REASON. And then when they or I have moved on there is not a major misunderstanding or bad feelings toward each other; it’s just that life has taken us in different directions. And then there are those that have been in my life for a SEASON. And the same thing happens as with those who came for a specific reason. Things and circumstances change and I am eternally thankful to them for having been there for me for a SEASON.

LIFETIME relationships are quite different because, well, it’s for a lifetime. I have friends that are very dear to me that I don’t have to talk to every day but I know they are there. And I am for them as well and we just know it. How do you explain the “just know it” factor? I thank God for my LIFETIME relationships: My husband, my children, my sisters,my in-laws and my dear friends that have been beside me through the sad and happy times. And the people that God has brought into my life in the past couple of years. God knew what he was doing and the kind of people I needed to surround me for the rest of my life.

 

May today there be peace and joy within you.

May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

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Update

Nathaniel, Scott, Kyle and Matt are all back from Florida, safe, sound and EXHAUSTED! They are all sooooo excited. Total for the 4 days they were there is 206 received the Holy Ghost and 192 baptized in Jesus Name. Thank God.

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